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Thursday, 02 July 2009

  • Snakes in the Playground

    Here's the strange and tragic tale out of the headlines.  Of course, there is a metaphor.

    A pet python broke out of its holding tank and strangled a two-year-old girl in the bedroom of her home in Florida, local authorities said.

    The 8ft (2.5m) albino Burmese python had also bitten Shaiunna Hare on her forehead several times.

    Charles Darnell, the snake's owner and boyfriend of Shaiunna's mother, stabbed the python and prised the child away, but she died before paramedics arrived.

    Authorities removed the snake from the home after obtaining a search warrant.

    Officials said Mr Darnell did not have a permit for the snake. He could face child endangerment or other charges.

    Everglades breeding

    According to police, Mr Darnell said he had put the snake in a bag in an aquarium container on Tuesday night, but awoke the next morning to find it missing.

    Bobby Caruthers, from the sheriff's office in Sumter County, central Florida, said Mr Darnell "ran immediately to the infant's room" and discovered "the snake on the child".

    "He also said he observed bite marks on the forehead of the child," Mr Caruthers said.

    Wildlife officials say they are growing increasingly concerned by the proliferation of pythons in the Florida wilderness.

    It is believed that some have been released by pet owners who can no longer care for them.

    The snakes are breeding in the Everglades, where they have no natural predators.

    Burmese pythons can reach a length of 16ft (5m) and live for 30 years.

    The US Humane Society told Associated Press news agency that at least 12 people have been killed in the US by pet pythons since 1980, including five children.

    We should rightly be horrified by this story.  How could anyone put such a dangerous predator near a child?  We have no idea what kind of safeguards this man put up - probably pretty good ones.  But the fact remains: some things just don't belong in the house.

    There are other things we allow in the house that are deadly or deadlier that we allow in the house:

    • Unfiltered, unsupervised and unaccountable media access.  I've heard kids cuss and portray attitudes and sexual innuendo that would embarrass the most hardened person - where did they learn that?  Mom's and dad's allow the strangest videos and movies to be watched both from the screen, internet and DVD.
      As a parent of a teen, it's hard to sit down and talk about what they hear, see and what our kids are tempted to do with their friends.  Get over it!  Just do it!  Be a parent, not a friend; place boundaries and limits. 
    • Attitudes and conversations that adults should discuss alone. Kids will pick up on our language, attitude, criticism and praise.  Do they hear us admit good things as well as critical things of people?  When we're criticizing a teacher, leader or government official, do we also mention it's blessings?  A teacher commented to me about the rudeness and attitude of a child.  I lamented but she explained: when the parents of this child came in and cussed her out, she understood - the child only knows what is taught by example.  Do you cuss in front of your kids?  They will, too.  Do you allow bad or off-colored jokes?  They will, too.
      Here's what's cool: it goes the other way around, too!  They will demonstrate great attitude and great character when we demonstrate it, too.  But it's "caught", not taught.
    Probably the worst snake we allow is that of simple acedia. What is that?  Acedia is "a state of listlessness or torpor, of not caring or not being concerned with one's position or condition in the world. "
    Most parents are so busy with other things, they don't talk to each other about real plans for their kids. 
    Most of us plan our vacations better than we plan our spiritual and moral game plan for our kids. 
    Listen!  It "just doesn't happen." 

    Pr. 12:5 -- "The plans of the righteous are just, but the advice of the wicked is deceitful."  Do you really want to trust Dr. Phil and Oprah for your family?  Take examples from Hollywood?  Please ... can you hear the hissing?

    Pr. 15:22 -- "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed."  Who are your Godly advisors?  They should be pastors and dear, deep spiritual friends who have the scars to prove they've gone that way.

    Pr. 16:9 -- "In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps."  Plan, seek the Lord, re-adjust when he tells us to!

    But most of all, we want our sons and daughters to want one thing: to give their lives to Jesus Christ.  If I could, I would make a deal with God: My life that they and their posterity would choose this as their life theme verse:
    Pr. 16:3 -- "Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and your plans will succeed."

    May the Lord bless us though we don't deserve it.  May we make the hard steps, and be a generation full of praise, virtue and knowledge of God ...
     6 so the next generation would know them,

           even the children yet to be born,
           and they in turn would tell their children.

     7 Then they would put their trust in God
           and would not forget his deeds
           but would keep his commands.

    Ps. 78:6-7

Tuesday, 09 June 2009

  • 2009 Milkman - III

    Here are my thoughts of the Milkman 2009.  Perception can be a funny thing.  I figured that, since I train year-round, I'll have no problem (except for the open-water swim) to get through this year.

    Well, then reality proves what is really going on! 

    This year, my bib number was 427.  I'm fitting into the 40 - 44 age group and I placed 107th out of 146 contestants.  I didn't see any guys my age on the run, unless they were passing me!  Why?  The winners were posting times like, 1:02:09 ... AMAZING!  But I loved this year because I erased last year's embarrassing struggle.I finished last year, but I felt like I "cheated" by having to catch my breathe with the life-guards and by walking most of the 5K.  This year, I didn't do that.


    Here are my thoughts after I've had a little time to dissect what I did right, wrong and what I'm learning from the race.

    • This is the first time I've used a Tri-Wet Suit from Neosport.  I got it for $119.  It was amazing to use!  It gave me an extra amount of bouyancy and really smoothed out a more level form.  I still get nervous in water I can't see in - but for the most part, it wasn't fatiguing and it went without incedent.  Swimming at Bottomless a couple of times really helped take the edge off. 

      The temp was almost too warm, though, as I felt too warm towards the end of the swim.  But it beats a dry-drowning incident! So, as long as it's legal, this is a perfect example of utilizying technology to benefit your race!  My swim was 13:04.5 with at T-1 of 2:09.8.  Taking off the suit slowed me down quite a bit.

    • I want to get my weight down so, under doctor's recommendation, I'm trying some whey protein and creatine in a meal substitute to help build-up damaged tissue and lose fat.  I've done it for two weeks and it doesn't seem to be working.  In face, I suspect that my CRAMPING issues were more about too much invested in whey protien and creatine, and not so much about hydration and electrolyte levels.  I'll try it until the product is used up and I'll go see the doctor.  Of course, if I keep eating hamburgers and hotdogs at dinner, that's probably a problem, too.  Cramping occured in both calves (couldn't walk right for 3 days!) and right vastus medialus and sartorius.

    • Biking was okay.  I did it in 43:28.2.  I compared this to a cyclist I respect who was part of a team and he did it in 39:54 minutes, so I'd say my time was decent, considering that he only had to concentrate on one aspect.  Wind was from the South East and increased in speed towards the end of the bike leg, so it kind of helped going out; it made you suffer going in.  I ate one Gel Pack and downed a bottle and a half of water.  I started to develop a cramp in my right calf.  Transition time was 1:22.5

    • Run was horrible and painful.  At 32:14.7, that's over 10 minutes per mile!  I started with cramps in both calves and knew it was going to be bad; the best that can be said was that it was a consistant jog!  I found out that my shoes (new Mizuno Wave 4, with less than 30 miles on them) are not meant to be run in without socks - I got a couple of blisters.  Near the end I got cramps in my interior/medial thigh above the knee.  I think that I might get some of those zip-ties I see other racers use. 

    I could have shaved off a couple more minutes, but I'm still very pleased.  A 16 year old who is a GREAT swimmer also competed and his time was 1:26.  He did the swim in half my time, and was a couple minutes faster on the bike, but I actually beat his run time.  I think I can beat 1:30.  I'll ask around but I'll try this:

    • Cut the whey protien and creatine a couple of weeks before the race.

    • Always have a long bike ride in the week of 30 - 50 miles.

    • Do a "brick workout" once-a-week ramping up to the race.

    • Swim more at bottomless with the suit. 

    • add more technology changes (tri-top with pockets in the back, and zip-ties on shoes)


    One more thing I am proud I did.
    I made sure that before I raced, I read the scriptures and dedicated the race to the Lord. In fact, every day, must have that same sense of dedication.  I'm not doing this selfishly.  I'm doing this for Him - that he might be proud of action done in faith - living out that desire that I believe he paced within me.  I learned a lot about just persevering and going on.  I know I'll be able to pull a few more lessons in life from this race, but for now - Soli Deo Gloria!

    2009 Milkman

    Bib #: 427
    Total Time: 1:32:19.6

    500 m Swim: 13:04.5

    T-1: 2:09.8

    20 km Bike: 43:28.2

    T-2: 1:22.5

    5 km Run: 32:14.7

    Men's placing: 107th




Sunday, 03 May 2009

  • Something’s Don’t Need to Be Said

    I read this comment on Youtube:

    “I asked My God for a rapture dream the other night(3-23-09). I get tired of not knowing when he is coming. It is true we will not know the hour/day but we WILL KNOW when it is near. But anyway, I asked God and I said VERY SPECIFICALLY.....IF YOU ARE TRULY COMING WITHIN THE NEXT FEW YEARS, AND IF I (MYSELF) WILL SEE THE RAPTURE then and ONLY THEN give me a DREAM/VISION sometime. Needless to say I WAS NOT EXPECTING GOD to respond THAT VERY NIGHT if ever. 
    HE DID RESPOND GAVE ME A DREAM!”

    A couple things:

    (1) the “rapture” is a Christian doctrine that summarizes that beginning of the end.  God promises that when he returns we will be “caught up with him in the air” or “raptured” unto him.  Jesus said, “And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.  (Jn. 14:3)  The Apostle Paul further clarifies what Jesus said: “After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.  (1 Thess. 4:17)

    (2) As far as this person’s dream goes, God is God and He is under no compulsion to acquiesce to our perceived needs or desires.  If he wants to answer – he answers regardless of the strings we put on them. 

    (3) I am SO with this dude!  I mean – if we’re going to fantasize and have a dream – THAT, my friend, is a dream!!!!  

     

    But it got me to thinking: “What a weird thing for someone to devote a teaching to?  Why would Jesus even mention this?  I mean, this is kinda out there.  To a non-Christian, this must seem bizarre (like a Mormon’s belief that man can ascend to godhood, even as “God” was once a man - TPJS, p. 345)!

    But then again, it would be perfectly natural.  After all, the disciples are his friends and he loves them/us.  He knew exactly what was going to happen, right? 

    “Look, I’m going, guys – it has to happen … but don’t think for a moment that I’m not coming back for you all!  Why would I do that?  My plans are just beginning to get started … there’s a lot that needs to happen.  But I will come back – just wait!” 

     

    Jesus told me to pray and ask for a lot of things. 

    But praying for his Return is not one of them. 

    It just goes without say.

    If I drop my kids off for a sport or some kind of event, I tell them, “I’ll see you after this is over, okay?”  But I never say, “And I want you to dwell on that fact – keep calling me and asking, ‘when are you coming?’ or ‘are you sure you’re coming?’.” 

    I’ll be there – they belong to me!  They are my responsibility!  I love them and crave their relationship!  I have no intention of leaving them without resource or to danger.  I mean, really!  What a silly thing to worry about!

    And that’s my Master.  I trust he’s going to get the “minivan” out of Garage … and he’s driving to pick his kids up.  When?  Where?  Oh, he’s a parent … he’ll find me!

     

    I’m starting to hear the haughty whispers: “Christians believe in a fairy tale.  We’ve had enough of their intrusive morals and beliefs.  We don’t need them.  They need to butt-out.  Sure, Christianity played a role in history … but this is today.” 

    It makes me nervous. 

    But I’m reminded: I’m getting picked up, soon.  So, I’ll play my part and role … and wait for my ride.

     

    So, it really does go without say … but I’ll say it anyway:  He is returning. 

     

    And with the Ancients, I say: “maranatha … even so, Lord Jesus, come quickly!”  *


    * PS - the video is not great ... but the music, is awesome.

Tuesday, 07 April 2009

  • The Joy of Owning Nothing

    Let me say from the outset - I'm not advocating giving away everything and living an ascetic lifestyle.

    But I *am* saying that sometimes we easily fool ourselves.  We want to think we are not influenced by our stuff.  We want to think that people are more important than possessions.  I just find that we are, for the most part, innocently hypocritical.  Here's what I mean:
    I have an I-Pod Touch that I really enjoy.  It's cool - it's tech-chic.  I've spent probably $40 on stuff just to protect it from getting scratched or otherwise kept in as great a condition as possible.  Would I allow my son to borrow it?  Take it on a class trip?  No.
    I have a really nice TV at home - we finally got one of those LCD TV's.  It's awesome.  What do I tell kids?  "Don't swing stuff around it.  And that couch - don't sit on it with drinks of food.  And don't eat at my dad's old desk."  (I sometimes use the excuse of, "oh, it's good stewardship to keep it looking good ..." no it's not - I like my stuff and don't want it broken.  Would I rather have a broken spirit in my kid but great stuff?)

    I'm worried about that stuff.  Afraid it'll get broken or soiled.  Now - if *I* were to break it or soil it, that would be different, right?  I'm a hypocrite.
    Worse - it's NOT my stuff.  It all belongs to God.  Further - compared to the Universal scope of things, my nifty stuff just doesn't matter.  And I'm so worried!? 

    Let me digress and think of something else - and then wrap up my point.

    Fact One: I enjoy getting and receiving comfort, security, laughter, applause and mirth. 
    Fact Two: These are blessings from God!  Even my stuff has emotional ties that from God.  A desk is a desk - but God knows that it was a gift from my dad - and that tie is important to Him.  (of course, there's important and MORE important ...)
    Fact Three: The Greatest joy in God is giving those gifts away!  To die to self is the greatest of privileges!  It is a Universal principle and law.
    Fact Four: To run from the cost of love is folly.
    Fact Five: As long as I am in my unredeemed flesh - I will try to run from that cost.

    My Followship of Jesus mostly is a titanic tug of war in this area.  I want what I want - but I also want what God wants.  But in the end, I know what will bring reward and also the greatest sense of peace and enjoyment.  Letting God be God and fall into place.  And it is a marvelous witness to our world:

    Piper said this: "The world is not impressed when a Christian is thankful.  They are impressed when we give away our riches for Christ sake and count it gain ... the cost of love is not optional."

    What comforts and pleasures am I willing to give up - not for asceticism's sake, but for Christ's sake.

    Would I be so bold? 

Saturday, 07 February 2009

  • Those Pesky Kids ...

    First, let me say that at the end of this blog, you'll fnd a joke.  Because I have to keep things in perspective.

    But this story caught my attention regarding the messed up hypocritical society we live in (although, admittedly, it hasn't been "in-shape" in quite a long time!). 

    CNN on-line has this story of a doctor who loses his license because - amongst other charges - he and his staff knowingly delivered a live baby after a girl came in and wanted an abortion

    After being given a medication to start the abortion, the baby was born -- much to everyone's disappointment, ALIVE.  
    "The staff began screaming and pandemonium ensued. Sycloria watched in horror and shock as her baby writhed with her chest rising and falling as she breathed."
    A clinic co-owner entered the room and used a pair of shears to cut the baby's umbilical cord, the suit said. She "then scooped up the baby and placed the live baby, placenta and afterbirth in a red plastic biohazard bag, which she sealed, and then threw bag and the baby in a trash can."
    Staff at the clinic did not call 911 or seek medical assistance for Williams or the baby, the suit said. 

    Renelique arrived at the clinic about an hour later and gave Williams a shot to put her to sleep. "She awoke after the procedure and was sent home still in complete shock," the suit said.

    Police were notified of the incident by an anonymous caller who told them the baby was born alive and disposed of."

    So, basically:
    1) We have a doctor being penalized for doing what he can legally do anyway: kill a baby.
    2) We have a woman who is charging - what? - that her doctor messed up?  What did he mess up?  She came in to get rid of her baby for her ...why is she blaming him?
    3) We have courts and police charging a person for doing something he's been paid for legally for a long time.

    When did the baby become important to the mother? 
    When did children stop becoming children to the doctor?
    When did "terminating a pregnancy" become murder to the police and courts?

    I admit that I don't have answers.  But I does something seem wrong here?  Doesn't it seem the least bit out-of-the-ordinary that America is confused about her desire to be sexually irresponsible and deal with the consequences? 

    Chuck Colson wrote: "Abortion rests on the same principle that undergirded the Nazi Holocaust: the idea that some human lives are not worthy of living, that it is morally and legally permissible to snuff them out. In abortion, of course, that applies to unborn babies. But once people accept that principle, it can be applied equally well to other groups. As Francis Schaeffer once wrote, 'If the fetus gets in the way, ditch it. If the old person gets in the way, ditch it. If you get in the way. . .'"

    Okay, switch gears:

    Valentines Day approaches!  Here's a fun joke you can tell all your friends!

    A young man finds the woman of his dreams and asks her to marry him. He tells his mother he wants her to meet his fiance, but he wants to make a bit of a game out of it. He says he'll bring the girl over with two other women and see if his mother can guess which is the one he wants to marry. His mother agrees to the game.

    That night, he shows up at his mother's house with three beautiful young ladies. They all sit down on the couch, and everyone has a wonderful evening talking and getting to know each other.

    At the end of the evening, the young man asks his mother, 'OK, Mom, which one is the woman I want to marry?'

    Without any hesitation at all, his mother replies, 'The one in the middle.'

    The young man is astounded. 'How in the world did you figure it out?!'

    'Easy,' she says. 'I don't like her.'

    Irony can be cruel.

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  • Hi! Thanks for visiting my blog! I'm originally from the Kansas City area, but now I live in the best place in the world: Roswell, NM! Participate and have fun! Why "Korean Barbarian?" It's taken from Erwin McManus' book "The Barbarian Way" I choose to live a life that is thoughtful, faithful and close to God - no matter the cost or consequences to myself. I claim no wisdom or superiority. It is wild, untamed, and unpredictable. Years ago, the barbarians tore down the stinking corpse of Rome's immoral superstructure. I aim to do the same in a culture that is vapid and preoccupied with self-promotion. Soli Deo Gloria

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